Good Friends Are Very Important

Abdul Azeez
3 min readSep 13, 2019

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If you cannot find a good friend, be one. And if you have found one, cherish them. It is important to realize that the world today might be getting better with new forms of technology, but the world surely needs to get better at the way it makes people become friends.

When you find really good friends, you simply just become better. And when we talk about friends, you begin to think on the outside, most times, being a good friend is about looking inwards and seeing if you are yourself a very good friend. Your success or achievements can be related to the 5 people you must relate or share your time with.

The more you share your time with them, you get to think the way they think, you do things the way they do. And imagine how that would be useful if the way they think is good. You simply become good. People see you and all they see is a very nice and wonderful person. But deep down, you know most of what you are is what your friends are. Understand that we get what we seek, and in as much as you continue to pursue finding very good friends, I believe you can and will find them.

But most importantly, good friends are like magnets. You have to be one to attract one. What your principles and actions are would surely determine the type of people that you invite into your life. As you get started today, imagine that good friends are all out there and you need to make yourself presentable to them. How would you act, relate or behave with others? That is what you need to work on. You do not necessarily need to go out there looking for that friend, you might just have to start with yourself.

And when you improve and get better, the things you see are better and the people you relate with just become better. So some times in seeking friends, be that friend. So in relationships when you seek a partner, you just have to first be that partner. In life, when you are seeking for something good, you just have to be that good person.

So if you seek friends that would always reach out to you from time to time, start reaching out now. If you need friends that would be there for you, be there for others. Well, do not get it wrong that because you have done this for others, that they would do the same back. But it is more difficult to expect it when you did not even do it for anyone in the first place. If you want to be shown kindness, you first have to be kind.

So as you start your day today, appreciate all those wonderful friends that have been there for you. Those that have taken the time to do what real friends do. Reach out and be grateful and also spread the message of good friendship forward. We all need to have better friendships with ourselves and others, and that can start now. Start now. Thanks and God Bless.

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Abdul Azeez
Abdul Azeez

Written by Abdul Azeez

A Java Developer By Day, Python Developer By Night. Becoming Better Day by Day is my Ambition

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