How To Always Win In The Long Term
If you put your mind to achieving something, and you do not quite get it, you feel very bad and feel like you lost, but what if I told you that losing today might be what you need to win tomorrow. What if I told you that what you see as a loss today might be a temporary setback towards the whole scheme of activities that is out there to help you achieve your bigger goal.
Sometimes, when we suffer setback, it makes us value the goal we are seeking for much more than if we achieved it the first time. And all the experience and lessons we learn along the way makes the goal worth the while. So how then can you win at something even if you seem to be losing today? The simple answer is to keep keeping on. It might seem like a cliche answer, but sometimes, the best answers are the easiest ones. You see, you never can tell what the bigger picture is, but when you keep keeping on, more doors basically open and usually leads to more goals than you originally imagined.
So yes, you are working towards something and it does not seem to be paying off. The only sure way to forever loose that thing is to give up on it, but what if you decide to give a little more effort into it. You are not guaranteed to win, but at least your chances of winning increases. But remember, simply because your chances of winning increases does not mean you have to win. But in that way, you are able to improve on whatever it is you started with and can keep on polishing it, and that only improves your chances.
Understand that sometimes, the things we think are good for us are usually very bad for us, and what we consider bad are usually the good things for us. So when you think you have lost something, it might be a way of letting go of something less valuable and preparing you for something more important. And when you keep pushing at it, it only means you are more likely to win at the more important goal than the current goal you are trying to pursue.
All I am saying is that in other to win and achieve more, you have to be willing to turn your losses into new chances and opportunities. You have to be willing to take a NO and convert it into a YES. And when you are able to do that, you develop a mindset that enables you win no matter the outcome of the current situation. You know that even if today does not go your way, tomorrow is there to try again. And you would try even more than you did today. For me, that is the secret of how to win at everything you do.
So as you get started today, things might not look as if you are going to win, but remember, you can only succeed if you keep at it. Have a mindset that believes you can achieve it. Having the mindset makes you tend towards activities that can help achieve your goal and that way, you are able to do more. Never give in to setbacks, take setbacks as realignments to your goal, and keep at it. No one knows when the goal would just be right, as such, you have to keep pushing on.
Thanks and God Bless.