How You Respond Matters

Abdul Azeez
2 min readJun 8, 2018

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Have you ever remembered the last time you wanted something so badly and in the end, it did not happen the way you wanted it? During those periods, time moves so slowly that we feel the impact of what happened and it appears as if it would never end. But no matter how long the night time looks, morning comes in the end.

So also is life. Never be intimidated by the inundations of everyday life. Sometimes life is easy and sometimes you get it the other way. When life is sweet and fun, be grateful and also when it does not go as planned, be equally grateful because, in the end, your situation is not as worse as you think.

It is easy to tell another person to simply not feel bad about what happens, but when you are in such situation, you understand perfectly well how difficult the situation is, but no matter what happens, keep pushing, you never know when the right door would open.

So this means that as humans, we can make mistakes and mistakes simply reminds us that we are humans. We are fallible more than we tell ourselves. We make wrong decisions no matter how well we have everything planned, but how we handle ourselves during the periods when we are not our best goes a long way to explain who we really are.

Because in the end, everyone would be good at their best times. It is during the bad times that we can really show the world who we really are. It does not matter how long it takes to be in a bad time, never let go of being your best self.

Your best self, in the end, is what matters. Situations come and go but what you make of yourself during the worst times is what is going to be the greatest part of you in the end. So I tell you today to never let go in your worst times. That is when you need to put in your best. Everyone can do well at their best times, it is what we do during the bad times that makes all the difference.

But even when you do not give your best in your worst time, do not beat yourself up. Realize that it is an opportunity you do not want to lose, make the best of it. In the end, all that matters is how we respond, not what happens to us.

Thanks and God Bless.

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Abdul Azeez
Abdul Azeez

Written by Abdul Azeez

A Java Developer By Day, Python Developer By Night. Becoming Better Day by Day is my Ambition

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