Learn To Say NO

Abdul Azeez
2 min readApr 26, 2018

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Humans are naturally good-hearted. We want to be able to help as many people as possible in life. Making people happy and wonderful in all their affairs is one of the fundamental reasons why we are all here on earth.

But sometimes, we reach a certain limit and we might not be able to do more than we are capable of at any point in time. At this point, we need to evaluate and look at the areas we can really do more and stop in the areas where we might not be able to give.

This means to be able to say NO to more things that we might not be able to get to at the appropriate time. I am using this opportunity today to apologize to everyone I might have promised something and not come through with. This makes me feel really bad and I wish I had said it earlier.

Henceforth, I look forward to being able to work with a better promise for every discussion I make. It makes the world a better place if we are indeed able to create a better promise cycle than to make and break them.

I apologize to you, YES you for the promise I made and was not able to keep and for the ones I might make in the future. But I would try as much as I can to be able to say No at the appropriate time.

This happens to a lot of us. We want to make others happy and we tend to go overboard sometimes. It might not be very cool to look the person in the eye and tell them the exact truth. But imagine which is worse, promising to come through with something or not coming through at all stating the truth from the beginning.

We can make this in the best way possible making sure that we are indeed unable to do what the person wants and if time and other resources were available, we would have made a different decision.

It would make the world a better place if we only make promises we can keep and not keep others satisfied temporarily while breaking their hearts in the end. It would really make the world better.

So to you out there, if I have not come through with any of the promises I made to you, it is not my intention. I really apologize and would try my best to be a better person in the future. Feel free to get in touch and let me know if I can be of help in other ways.

Send this forth and I wish us all the very best. Thanks and God Bless.

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Abdul Azeez

A Java Developer By Day, Python Developer By Night. Becoming Better Day by Day is my Ambition