When Challenges Happen

It is human to feel bad and sometimes hopeless when challenges happen, and that is okay, but for a little while. Give yourself time to be human, feel the pain of not achieving what you could not achieve. Then use that pain and challenge to push yourself forward, because challenges are usually detours that usually take you where you are supposed to have been in the first place.

When challenges happen, change your perspective about it. Rather than seeing it with a negative mind, give yourself the opportunity to see the goodness that might be involved in it. Well, sometimes it is very difficult to see the goodness in something when you cannot think otherwise. But give yourself time to think and you would be happy things turned out the way they did.

Nothing is really ever a mistake. When it does not go your way, the most important thing to take out of it is a lesson. And ensure that the lesson you learn is not such that keeps you away from achieving more in the future. Because some lesssons we learn usually keep us in the same place and our justifications are that it happened in the past and we do not want it to happen again.

It is understandable that we keep ourselves away from things that have hurt us in the past, but remember that fear can both push you or stop you. Choose the better part and let your fear push you to become a better person. So when challenges happen, give yourself just a little time to be human about it, learn from it and move on. This is because it seems as if challenges are like breathing to humans. We cannot really do without it. So if we cannot live without it, the next best thing is to manage it.

As such, with challenges comes the opportuntiy to become better. Challenges do not come alone, they come with an opportunity that might be very big if we also stay calm and see the challenge as an opportunity. Your outlook on life is usually true, whether positive or negative. Choose correctly.

As you start your day today, begin to weave positivity into every thing that you do. Realize that challenges would happen, but challenges wrapped inside a weave of positivity becomes opportunity. What one man sees and runs away, another sees and comes closer. Choose wisely. Look at challenges with a smile and say to yourself that you would overcome in the end. And go for it. Challenges need to be tackled, and you are the right person for the job. So go for it. Thanks and God Bless.